How to get love back

If you truly want to know how to get love back, you have to do a bit of soul searching, it's always easy after a breakup to only think of the good times, it's important that you try to be completely objective and think of both the good and the bad times.

In reality, there are only a few relationships that are unworthy of saving, if you and your ex spent more time fighting than you did doing something good and fun, then perhaps you should consider moving on, if they were physically or verbally abusive, it probably wasn't a healthy relationship, if they were mentally unstable, you probably are better off without them.

If the relationship overall was a good one, and they weren't abusive, the following tips should help you getting your lost love back.

Pestering and pushing your ex is not a good idea to win love back, if you try to constantly get in touch with your ex; whether by phone, email, text message, or stalking them, you are going to do more harm than good, they will see this as a sign of desperation, this could actually push them even further away than bringing them closer to you.

Don't argue, beg, or plead with your ex about your past relationship, if your ex broke up with you they may have gave you reasons why, now, you are probably beating yourself up over them, you probably wish you had never done those things, but the past is the past, and this is the present, get it in your mind that the relationship is currently over, concentrate on what is going on right now, the only thing worse than obsessively contacting your ex is to beg or plead with them.

Making promises that you'll change, etc, etc, won't help you and your ex get back together at all, back off, give them some time, and live your life, you'll be doing yourself a big favor in more ways than one, you'll probably become more desirable to your ex, because you are allowing them to think about you and miss you, and you'll also be helping yourself to live happier.