How to Get My Wife to Love Me Again

There are a few fundamental strategies that any gentleman can apply towards gaining his wife's love back. And of course that depends on your specific situation and circumstances. First and foremost, you are going to have to discover why your spouse has stopped loving you or why she says that she does not love you any longer, even if there is a slight possibility that might not be the true.

Here I mention a number of 5 common reasons for this

1.- While I was having an affair my wife found out and that is how I have lost my spouse's love.

2.- My spouse found somebody else she thinks is way better than me.

3.- I did not keep my promises and agreements. I have told her that I was going to change my attitude for good but I haven't done so. This has lead to disappointment and loss of hope on her part.

4.- I have abandoned my partner in her eyes. I did not give her the love and attention she needed.

5.- I always tried to control everything my wife did. I did not allow my spouse sufficient liberty and room to accomplish what she wanted.

Once you have recognized the reason or combination of reasons, you can start working on the problem to try and fix it. A lot of marriages that do not succeed it's because they cannot identify what the real problem is. Communication is a huge part of making the marriage work and yet many men think in a different way than women do, so even if you believe you know how your wife feels about something, chances are you almost certainly don't. So talk to her.

Without the true communication, it's very difficult to resolve and kind of disagreement or problems you may have. The right kind of communication will allow your relationship to start improving and later to prosper if you provide your spouse the chance to share everything with you.

If your wife has agreed to try in the matrimony once again, do not go back to how things were. Maintain things interesting, do small things to demonstrate to your partner how much you love and value her or do something nicely unexpected. Surprise her.

Maintaining your promises is another essential part of the equation. If you haven't been able to keep your promises in the past, start doing so now. Your history of broken promises has with no doubt ruined the trust in your relationship but you can begin repairing that now. Finally, provide your wife with the space and time she needs. Let her know that you are there for her but don't suffocate her.